I would love to shout this from the roof tops for all women!
All around me I see women, of all ages staying in a marriage or relationship with Men who are unkind, controlling, leave you neglected, cruel, doesn't want you to have a life. I have one important thing to say to you. GET OUT! Go back to school, get a job, do what ever you have to too build a life, your life, not a by product of what he thinks you should be. Love is not a ball and chain!
Don't listen to your Mother, Sister, Aunt's, friends or any one else who tells you different. ANY WOMAN WHO TELLS YOU TO STAY, DOES NOT HAVE YOUR BEST INTEREST AT HEART. I don't care who they are! If you have children then you really need to get out. You are not doing them any justice by staying. If you have a daughter, you are teaching them that they are not worth having a man who will be good to them. If you have a Son, you are teaching them that is ok to treat woman badly.
This may sound harsh, but your life and your free will was giving to you for you! When you give it away, and then find yourself unhappy, and then you want God to make it better. You ask him to change the person you have given all you power away to. You pray and ask God to show them the light, turn them into the kind of person that will be kind and caring. GET REAL! I truly do believe that God is saying " Look, I gave you life, I gave the free will, and a brain. Start using it. You choose to give it away and only you can take it back."
It amazes me that women are still this dumb. It is time to wake up, and grow up. Stop selling out.
Stop teaching your beloved Daughters to put up with abuse. Teach them to stand on there own two feet, be proud. Don't settle for less. Please help break the cycle of abuse. Not LETTING you work is abuse, Not LETTING you drive a car is abuse. Not giving you any money is abuse. Not LETTING you have any friends is abuse. I could go on and on.
Who ever is reading this, I love you. Please, if you have a man in you life is abusive, please love yourself enough to find your self, find your freedom.
Rev. Deyani Wolf
5 years ago